We use "Sucks dick" as a derogatory term, but we value the actual act very highly



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15 Nov 2017 07:17 - +843
I love things that suck dick
15 Nov 2017 07:44 - +362
It's a relic from a more homophobic time.
15 Nov 2017 07:36 - +128
It’s like the old saying goes: “it’s called a blowjob because it’s work that is most certainly going to be paid for one way or another”.
15 Nov 2017 07:34 - +54
"fuck you" is the same way
15 Nov 2017 08:16 - +35
A friend of mine once told me he never understood why "Fuck you" was an insult, since you're essentially screaming "I hope you have sex!" at someone. If someone says "Fuck you" maybe thank them....
15 Nov 2017 07:37 - +35
"sucks ass", "pussy", "cunt", "go fuck yourself"--all good things.
15 Nov 2017 07:23 - +30
getting the dick sucked is great, sucking the dick is not
15 Nov 2017 07:40 - +25
Kyrie Irving told a fan to suck his dick and the Celtics haven't lost since. It's a very proper phrase.
15 Nov 2017 07:07 - +24
It's kinda misogynistic when you think about it.
15 Nov 2017 09:03 - +22
That's why I say "sucks ass" instead. I can say with perfect truth that I never want anyone to suck my ass.
15 Nov 2017 08:59 - +13
Yes. This is because of traditional homophobia. Traditionally, in Western society, it was pretty much assumed by everyone that being gay was super awful, *especially* if you were the one doing the sucking, not the one being sucked. These kinds of insults were aimed at men, usually by other men. This insult assumes that the person receiving them is male. So, yes. You are correct.
15 Nov 2017 08:43 - +9
Cocksuckers are truly the best of us.
15 Nov 2017 07:07 - +4
Not if you are Spacey
15 Nov 2017 08:15 - +2
Also when something is bad we say "that blows". But a blowjob is generally considered a good thing.
15 Nov 2017 09:57 - +1
Just add "with teeth" and it's accurate
15 Nov 2017 10:03 - +1
Straight men popularized this phrase (bro culture, boy's club etc). If a straight man is sucking on a penis, then his life has taken a terrible turn.
15 Nov 2017 09:55 - +1
Yes, OP. This is because homophobia exists.
15 Nov 2017 09:18 - +1
Yea.. but it's like, YOUR the one who has to suck the dick.
15 Nov 2017 09:59 - +1
When straight ppl go tell a gay person to go suck a dick, the reaction is “Sounds like a great night of events, actually”
15 Nov 2017 09:19 - +1
We also value acts like waste removal, but most people would not usually deem it to be conducted by people of high value. I personally believe it originates from the lack of respect held for people who sucked dicks.
15 Nov 2017 09:46 - +1
That's why I always says sucks dirty dick. It's not the action, it's the decisions to pit a filthy one in their mouth that I'm pointing out.
15 Nov 2017 09:21 - +1
Sucking dick is hard work
15 Nov 2017 09:56 - +1
Not everyone values it that much.
15 Nov 2017 09:21 - +1
A similar reflection from the 1970s by George Carlin in the routine on the seven banned words. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_dirty_words
15 Nov 2017 09:59 - +1
Maybe the derogatory term is from a womens point of view?
15 Nov 2017 09:27 - +1
Yeah, that's why I've started using the phrase "this really sucks my dick" as a way of saying "this is great and gives me a minor confidence boost"
15 Nov 2017 10:01 - +1
We also call week people a pussy but they are damn versatile and take regular poundings.
15 Nov 2017 09:43 - +1
Yea, we need to turn that into a positive term.
15 Nov 2017 10:07 - +1
“Number one, why so many blowjobs? Blowjobs are an art form and really deserve respect and character development.”
15 Nov 2017 09:52 - +1
Its only derogatory when used describe a male gendered subject.
15 Nov 2017 09:54 - +1
This is the first post on this sub to make me pause and go "oh." Oh.
15 Nov 2017 09:53 - +1
So a dude wrote this?
15 Nov 2017 09:56 - +1
2/3 of the world do it and more than half do it and love it. Fun times
15 Nov 2017 10:07 - +1
thats what he is telling you, to keep you doing it.
15 Nov 2017 09:56 - +1
Because the person who is sucking it is the submissive one and in most cultures to be a submissive man is generally a bad thing.
15 Nov 2017 10:08 - +1
I guess people, somehow, look down upon the person who is doing the sucking...somehow.
15 Nov 2017 09:57 - +1
We accept gay people as our equals, yet we still accuse our friends of being gay to annoy them.
15 Nov 2017 09:16 - +1
Start using it as a good thing. Change the world. "That movie was awesome! It sucks dick!"
15 Nov 2017 09:59 - +1
What are you, Gay?
15 Nov 2017 09:25 - +1
When I say it though, I mean as though the fallatio is trade for cigarettes. Never money, something cheaper than that.
15 Nov 2017 09:59 - +1
Fuck you.
15 Nov 2017 09:50 - +1
We also use pussy as a derogatory term but I know a vast majority like them.
15 Nov 2017 10:02 - +1
ya, because it sucks dick to suck dick, buts it's awesome as tits to get your dick sucked,...
15 Nov 2017 09:51 - +1
This post sucks dick.
15 Nov 2017 10:04 - +1
We use the term "ditch digger" also but without them we'd probably still be in the Stone Age.
15 Nov 2017 09:53 - +1
That is why I always say “sucks donkey dick” Nobody values that.
15 Nov 2017 10:07 - +1
Its because its usually not fun for the thing thats doing the sucking
15 Nov 2017 07:37 - +1
We value the act at about $50... if you say it sucks ass, it will cost you extra.
15 Nov 2017 10:07 - +1
Peace and love one heart
15 Nov 2017 07:28 - +0
We tell people we're furious at to "eat shit" but for some that's the greatest blessing.

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